lying detection....

Stiff body: The person who lies unconsciously thinks that he could be unnoticed if he didn't move, thats why his body may be stiff with almost no movements

Deviation from base line behavior: Everyone of us has got a certain natural way of talking, walking and answering questions, this is called the baseline behavior. when people lie they usually deviate from this baseline behavior, thats why you can tell someone is lying by comparing his current behavior with his baseline behavior.

Anxiety: Ask the person directly if he was lying and watch for signs of anxiety that may appear on his body language (sweating, fidgeting or nail bitting). The person who lies may become anxious when confronted.

Blinking rate: Its believed that your blinking rate increase when you become anxious, just notice the person's blinking rate when being confronted and then compare it to his normal rate.

speech errors: We all make mistakes but when speech errors increase without an obvious reason then the person may be telling a lie. These speech errors happen as a result of the resistance that arises between the person's desire to be right and his need to lie.

Paying extra attention to their words: When a liar is asked whether he is lying or not he will pay extra attention to what he is saying while replying to the question not to get caught and as a result he may speak slowly,hesitate and become anxious

dream secret

roses are red, violets are blue
there's nothing that's better than you

in the middle of this dream i was walking alone at night
hands reached out, but they didn't feel right
and it started to rain and my face got wet
i looked down, thought i saw your face
in the cracks in the pavement
this is just a dream, dream secrets

when i tell you i need you i'm just talking to myself
if i could touch you, i could show you
that i know you, and your dream secrets in the night,

dream your secrets, they don't lie
dream secrets, don't let them fade away
dream your secrets, close your eyes

well, the room was hungry and the room was hot
when i left, the stairs were cool with your laughter
and i saw you leaning against the wall, you looked alright
then you ran your fingers through your hair
and you said, if i'm the shadow
then you're the light

in the middle of this dream i fell asleep
and i never woke up, and we're lying in the grass
and out skin in on fire, and we're rooling down the hill
burning up the grass

roses are red, violets are blue,
in the middle of your heart there stands a truth

dream secrets in the night
dream your secrets, they don't lie, no, no, no
dream secrets, don't let them fade away
dream your secrets, close your eyes

friend......

i love all my friend.....
gud friend....
bad friend...
but once b my friend....
forever my friend....
whatever thay had do to me....
whatever they try to do me....
nevermind....
all human do mistake.....
for me,we rally need a friends in our life.....
and it's bonus for me if a get true friend....
friend that know what mean by "friend"....
friend that will help me when i have problem....
friend that will advise me if i do some stupid mistake....
friend that will have time to hear my problem....
friend that will cheer me up when i sad....
friend that never betray me.....
be my friend.....
and then,judge me.....
i can be anoyying if someone make me feel annoyying....
i can be a good nagger if they do stupid mistake.....
huhu....
to all my best friend.....
i,ila,.....i love u all so much.....
and i love our friendship relationship....
keep it up guys....
(^_)